Four Steps To Pick Her Up

When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, it is because the man has shown her that he has good genes. A woman wants to have good offspring, evolutionarily speaking. Therefore, her number one biological criteria when choosing a sexual partner is whether or not the man has displayed alpha male characteristics (good genes).

Certainly, women don't consciously make this choice. It is a result of billions of years of evolution. We are merely animals. Advanced animals, but animals even so. When a woman becomes interested in having sex with a man, her thoughts are not "He has superior genes so I want to sleep with him so I can have superior offspring".

More accurately, her thoughts are "He is charming. I like him. He makes me feel like a woman". Her emotions tell her, not her sound, sensible conscious mind.

Doesn't this just seem sensible? Recall all the moments in your life that you have observed this. You have more than likely noticed women liking jerks, rich guys, jocks, and celebrities. If you had looked closer, you would have observed that most of these guys merely had alpha male characters.

When a woman meets this type of man, common sense and logic go to the waist side. How many times have you heard a woman say she prefers a certain kind of man, but dates the exact opposite?

Seducing a woman can basically be broken down into four parts.

* The man has alpha male traits and he is where the woman can see and observe him.

This is as easy as leaving the house, looking your best, and displaying alpha male traits. Obviously, without putting yourself in the woman's field of view it is all for nil. It's like opening a store in the heart of the desert. Notice I didn't say go up to any woman you fancy. Wait for the signs first. The greatest thing about this is you can just about do this wherever women are. The grocery store, school, church, the mall, etc.

* The woman sends the man signs she is interested

The majority of men are not very good at reading a woman's body language. Fortunately, it is a learned skill that can be developed over time.

* The man approaches the woman after receiving the signals

All I can say is the approach must be relevant to the situation. If you are in the mall, comment on the selection of clothes. If you are in church, comment on the choir. If you are in class, comment on the instructor. No pickup lines should be used at any time. The important thing to focus on is the angle of the approach (45 degrees) and your body language (More on this later). Be sure to turn your head slightly to face her and not to face her head on. This is intrusive.

* After meeting, the man discreetly gives the woman an opportunity to be alone with him

This is key. A woman will never respond favorably to a direct advance, even if she wants to. A woman appreciates and craves the entire process. When a man ruins it by directly suggesting sex, the mood is ruined, all the spontaneity and magic are gone, and the woman has resorted to using logic (Never a good thing when trying to court her).

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