How To Be An Aplha Male

Alpha Voice Tone

Talking from the diaphragm is an alpha male characteristic. As a matter of fact, singing teachers tell their students to practice this. When originating from the bottom of the stomach, the human voice has more strength and purpose. The voice sounds less confident and flat when solely originating in the larynx.

Call to mind all the men you have ever been around who thrive with women. Ever notice how they talk? A masculine voice is very appealing to a woman. A great way to practice this is to push air from your diaphragm when you speak and breathe. Practicing this strengthens the muscles in your diaphragm and makes your voice appear deep and masculine.

Alpha Male Speaking Traits

When a man says words like "um" and "uh", it makes him sound unsure of what he is saying. If you can avoid these kinds of words, you will seem more confident. Politicians are instructed to do this when giving speeches.

There's no reason to make these simple kinds of mistakes. Rehearse talking into a tape recorder and listen to yourself talk. It can be hard to listen to at first, but practice you will make you sound better and better. Take "um" and "uh" completely out of your vocabulary. Make an effort in all of your daily communication, not just talking to women.

Talking Speed

A fast speaking speed shows a lack of confidence. A slow speaking speed, by contrast, has an opposite effect. Plus, when you pause for effect it shows higher status.

Use a recorder and practice. The recorder never lies!

Annunciate

Mumbling also has a negative effect. When a man annunciates his words, it is clear he isn't ashamed of what is coming out of his mouth. This shows confidence.

Use a recorder.

Eye Contact

This is huge. If a man looks a woman in the eye when beginning a conversation, it is imperative that the woman look away first. Not enough emphasis can be put on this point. This sets things off on the right tone. However, there is a fine line between staring and having confident eye contact. A good rule of thumb is to look her in the eyes more when you are talking, and less when she is talking.

I can't convey enough how crucial this is. If you disregard everything else in this article, don't disregard this! Try this: The next time you are speaking with a woman you like, wait for the moment when the two of you "lock eyes". Whatever you do, make her look away first! This will have a very strong effect on her. This will also give you a chance to observe her pupils (More on this later). She will start to blush, look to the floor (A sign of submission), and maybe even get tongue tied. She is now in the presence of a firm, masculine man.

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