Pick Up Lines That Work - How To Start A Conversation

Some pick up lines are just terrible.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

"Nice shoes. Wanna bang?"

"Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?"

"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.

And this just isn't true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.

It is as simple as that, merely to engage a woman in conversation.

Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.

But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

Because you shouldn't just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

It is natural to be nervous when going out to meet women, being unsure what to say; however, most often you miss your chance to meet a good woman, simply because it takes to long to think up something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren't afraid to share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Do you believe in astrology?" (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

"What is your sign?" (No matter what she says - be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how you begin conversations.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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