Sexual Problems For Men and Women

Some of the most challenging problems for daters are the various sexual issues they face when the relationship works out. It's all lovely when you're dancing, dining and chatting over dessert, but what if you have a sexual issue when the lights go down, and you get into bed? There are several problems you may have to face.

The primary issues which men face include rapid ejaculation, erection problems, and delayed ejaculation. Most men will have experienced rapid ejaculation at some point in their sexual life, because it is much the most common male sexual problem: over 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes of penetrating their partner during lovemaking. If you're a man, the best way to cope with this is to ensure that your partner has enjoyed an orgasm through cunnilingus or manual play before you penetrate. That way, she'll be satisfied and you'll enjoy the thrill of a new sexual partner without worrying that you look foolish because you come too quickly. And it's always tactful to remind her that one of the reasons you're ejaculating so quickly is because you're so thrilled to be enjoying her body in this special way!

The next most common male problem is erectile dysfunction, which affects about ten percent of men at any one time. This is actually a fairly simple problem to solve in many cases, particularly when the problem stems from first night nerves. If you're a man and you lose your erection, don't panic, just tell her that this just shows your anxiety about making sure she's happy in bed, and then give her pleasure through cunnilingus or manual play, and next time you'll be more confident and able to make love without losing your erection. A great way to boost your sexual confidence is to buy some Viagra, which you can obtain from your doctor, and take it before you have sex. This will help you to overcome any sexual issues about losing your erection.

The third most common male sexual problem is called anorgasmia. This is a slightly more unusual problem where a man cannot ejaculate during sex despite prolonged thrusting during intercourse. It's often a real issue for couples, which causes conflict and unhappiness in a sexual relationship. If you're a man who has suffered this problem in sex, there is a simple treatment program on the website listed below in the resource box.

For women, the most common problem is inability to orgasm during sex, a condition called anorgasmia. Often it's caused by a woman's nerves about lovemaking, or the fact that she has issues with her body. If you're a woman with problems reaching orgasm during sex, you might like to look at the website below which has a self-help you can use at home to deal with inability to reach orgasm, and which should make lovemaking into a happy event which gives you both great satisfaction.

Finally, for couples, there's the constant issue of which sexual position to use in sex. We all enjoy the basic man on top and woman on top positions, along with rear entry and perhaps the side by side sex position as well, but it's certainly the case that variety is essential when it comes to sex. If you'd like to explore more, there's a tasteful website which can show you all you need to know about sex positions, called Sex Techniques and Positions. Just type "Sex Techniques and Positions" into Google and you'll find it.

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Rod Phillips is author of How To Beat Delayed Ejaculation. You can find more information on sex positions at Sex Techniques and Sexual Positions. If you want to beat premature ejaculation, see How To Last Longer In Bed.

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